Some men think women are so complicated..
we think in a way like maybe aliens do..
but do we??
hahaha
i guess just because women are from Venus and men from Mars, so we speak to each other in a different way.. different language you know..
so, I just recently continue my reading habit to a really good book, Beneath This Man..
yes, it's the second book from This Man trilogy by Jodi Ellen Malpas..
it is really great book behind 50 Shades of Grey..
okay, dont get tired of me because i keep going with my addiction to FSOG..
hahaha
in this book, Ava, the lead girl character just hanging and waiting for 3 magic words, I love you, in herself..
she won't say it until her love, Jesse Ward said it first..
but, well, she already confessed when she was drunk..
it just makes me think, do we as women really desperate to hear that 3 words??
i know.. i know i am not that expert in this love department..
but that's what makes me think, how we, women..
we never really feel safe without those passcodes spoke by or spouse/ couple..
yeah.. maybe we hang out with them a lot, we date to each other, exclusively attach to each other..
but without "I love you.." it seems like all 'relationship' we have, just like a delusional stage of ourselves.. and maybe we keep guessing and doubting..
is it really exclusive relationship or is it just stupid exclusive lust to each other?
from my side, of course i will feel hanging on the line, if my spouse doesn't say those words..
but, in my own record, in fact..
i feel like my ex-es never said it because they meant it and me neither..
is it just me and Ava who will feel insecure if our couple doesn't say those words,
or maybe another women in this world just feel okay without those words to say??
we think in a way like maybe aliens do..
but do we??
hahaha
i guess just because women are from Venus and men from Mars, so we speak to each other in a different way.. different language you know..
so, I just recently continue my reading habit to a really good book, Beneath This Man..
yes, it's the second book from This Man trilogy by Jodi Ellen Malpas..
it is really great book behind 50 Shades of Grey..
okay, dont get tired of me because i keep going with my addiction to FSOG..
hahaha
in this book, Ava, the lead girl character just hanging and waiting for 3 magic words, I love you, in herself..
she won't say it until her love, Jesse Ward said it first..
but, well, she already confessed when she was drunk..
it just makes me think, do we as women really desperate to hear that 3 words??
i know.. i know i am not that expert in this love department..
but that's what makes me think, how we, women..
we never really feel safe without those passcodes spoke by or spouse/ couple..
yeah.. maybe we hang out with them a lot, we date to each other, exclusively attach to each other..
but without "I love you.." it seems like all 'relationship' we have, just like a delusional stage of ourselves.. and maybe we keep guessing and doubting..
is it really exclusive relationship or is it just stupid exclusive lust to each other?
from my side, of course i will feel hanging on the line, if my spouse doesn't say those words..
but, in my own record, in fact..
i feel like my ex-es never said it because they meant it and me neither..
is it just me and Ava who will feel insecure if our couple doesn't say those words,
or maybe another women in this world just feel okay without those words to say??
